What Success Won’t Solve: Bruce Tift on Vulnerability & Inner Growth
You don’t need to be fixed. You need to be honest. Most leadership programs teach strategy. This one starts with surrender.
In this riveting episode, author and psychotherapist Bruce Tift joins MaryAnn Means-Dufrene to explore the messy, unspoken truth behind high-achieving leaders: the drive to succeed often masks a deep avoidance of discomfort. Drawing on insights from his book Already Free, Bruce reveals why real growth isn’t about improving yourself; it’s about meeting yourself.
This is a conversation for founders and executives who feel the pressure to “perform leadership”... and are ready to drop the act.
Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn
- 00:23 Welcome and Introduction
- 01:21 Discussing Bruce's Book and Its Impact
- 02:01 Exploring Intimacy and Relationships
- 03:35 The Complexity of Human Connections
- 06:30 Personal Development and Leadership
- 07:45 The Concept of 'Already Free'
- 09:52 Embracing Vulnerability and Present Moment
- 16:41 The Role of Protection Mechanisms
- 19:42 Navigating Personal and Social Challenges
- 08:15 Exploring Judgment and Doing Our Best
- 30:46 Contradictory Feelings and Behavioral Choices
- 31:45 The Fantasy of Resolution
- 35:04 Certainties and Vulnerabilities
- 39:26 The Reality of Privilege and Selfishness
- 44:55 Motivation and Helping Others
- 49:03 Living in the Present and Emotional Reactivity
- 53:17 Closing Thoughts and Reflections
About the guest
Bruce Tift, MA, LMFT, has been in private practice since 1979. He taught at Naropa University for 25 years, worked in psychiatric and family therapy settings, and has presented his work across the U.S. and internationally in countries including Mexico, Japan, the UK, Korea, and Thailand, most recently with the translation of his book in Thailand.
Bruce has practiced Vajrayana Buddhism for more than 40 years and was a student of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche. His life experience includes two years of motorcycle travel across Europe, North Africa, India, and Nepal, and working in a wide range of blue-collar jobs. He now lives in California with his wife, Reva.
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